An epitaph is a text inscribed on a tombstone or funerary monument. It can be a single word, a phrase, or a famous quote that represents the deceased well. If the deceased has not taken the time to choose their epitaph, it is customary for the family or loved ones to choose the text to be inscribed. It is a delicate act, but necessary to begin the work of mourning and honor the memory of the deceased.
Why write an epitaph?
An epitaph can be a wonderful opportunity to pay a final tribute to a loved one who was appreciated by their loved ones. It's a way to remember the deceased's life, their accomplishments, their jokes, their joys, and their sorrows. This personalized tribute should obviously not be done in a hurry. Engraved on a tombstone, an epitaph is intended to last for several decades, come snow or rain. It is also a text that will be visible to all visitors to the cemetery, whether they know the person buried there or not.
What type of epitaph should you choose?
It's therefore important to choose an epitaph that truly represents the deceased. Are you writing an epitaph for a relative? Be tender and sentimental to remind them that they were a loving and loved person. Do you want to pay tribute to the deceased's personal or professional accomplishments? Find the right wording to remind them that they left their mark on the world.
Finally, if the deceased was known for his good humor, his jokes and his comedic side, don't hesitate to use humor for his epitaph! It can be an expression he often used, or a joke that only your family knows.
What style of epitaph should I choose?
Once the text has been written or the quote chosen, it's time to determine the typeface and engraving style you want. The choice will, however, be determined by the type of stone and the type of monument chosen. The message can be short, engraved, or even accompanied by delicate symbols.
In conclusion, it's never easy to choose someone's last words for them. However, a well-chosen epitaph can soothe the hearts and minds of those who visit the deceased at the cemetery.
