Writing an obituary is an essential step to announce the loss of a loved one. To help you in this task, discover our practical tips and examples of obituaries that will help you overcome writer's block.
The Essential Elements of an Obituary
Basic Information
When announcing a death, include the essential information:
- His or her full name (including maiden name if applicable)
- Date and place of birth
- Date and place of death
- Circumstances of death if desired
Family Details
You will then need to list the names of grieving individuals, starting with the spouse and children and their spouses, if applicable. Grandchildren, siblings, and other family members dear to the deceased will follow. Very close friends can be included if desired.
Tribute to the Deceased
This section briefly summarizes the deceased's life, highlighting his or her qualities and what made him or her unique. You can share the impact he or she had on close ones and possibly accomplishments.
Funeral Information
To guide potential visitors, specify clearly:
- Date, time, and place of visitation
- Details of the funeral ceremony (viewing, liturgy, testimonials, etc.)
- Burial or cremation information
- Specific directives
Our professionals in Verdun help you personalize the ceremony from A to Z, from the flow to the choice of funeral plants.
Thanks and Support Messages
Complete your message with words of gratitude towards those who support the family or helped the close person in their last days. This can include thanks to healthcare staff if applicable. You can also conclude with the family's particular wishes.
Obituary Examples
Now that you know the elements to include, how do you structure and write the announcement? Here are three examples of obituary announcements that can serve as a base and general idea. Of course, the examples of funeral texts will need to be modified based on circumstances and details.
Formal Example
It is with deep sadness that we announce the passing of [Full Name], who peacefully passed away on [date] at [location], at the age of [X] years [optional details about circumstances, e.g., "from natural causes" or "following a cancer"]. Born on [date] in [birthplace], [he/she] leaves behind [spouse's name], children [names] (spouses), grandchildren [names], as well as brothers and sisters [names].
[Name] was known for [notable quality or trait]. His or her [integrity and generosity] will remain etched in our memories.
The family will receive condolences on [date] from [time] to [time] at [name and address of the salon]. The funeral will follow on [date] at [time] at [church name].
The family wishes to thank the staff of [healthcare facility] for their attentive care during his or her last days.
Instead of flowers, your sympathy can be expressed through a donation to [charitable organization name].
More Personal Example
It is with heavy hearts that we announce the departure of our beloved [Full Name], who left us on [date] at [location], surrounded by loved ones. [Name] was [an extraordinary person who brightened the hearts of people with his or her contagious smile].
Born on [date] in [birthplace], [he/she] leaves behind [spouse's name] and their children: [names (spouse)]; grandchildren [names], as well as brothers and sisters [names].
[Name] was [a personal detail, e.g., "a great storyteller and jokester with always the right word for a laugh," "a gardening enthusiast who shared the best tomatoes with neighbors," etc.]. We will remember [him/her] for [quality or funny or touching anecdote].
A celebration of his or her life will take place on [date] at [time] at [place]. Thanks to all who surround us with love in this difficult time.
Short Example
[Full Name], aged [age], left us peacefully on [date] at [location]. [He/She] leaves behind [spouse's name], children [names], and grandchildren. A visitation will take place on [date] at [location], followed by cremation in Montreal. Your memories and messages are welcome to honor his or her memory.
Tips for Personalizing an Obituary
Choose the Appropriate Tone and Style
Before writing, ask yourself what your loved one would have liked: a touching message, with humor or rather minimalist? Also consider the family's common values and the circumstances of the death to choose an appropriate tone.
Add Anecdotes or Memories
Obituary examples are a good starting material, but consider enriching the text with memorable moments, passions, or even a life lesson the person left behind.
The Service Actuel team in Verdun can offer you models and help you write the obituary.